@jacotheron Thank you for a detailed reply. I really hope you didn't write all that just for me.
I basically agree with you about all you wrote.
I did my research and read a lot of forums, different opinions and articles.
I wish you would've seen MPCNC I mentioned before your reply - it could've saved you a bit of writing.
I agree with you about using NEMA17 motors for a router being weak but MPCNC uses 5 NEMA17 - 2 on X and 2 on Y axis.
Also if you check the gallery or forums it seems it works well for wood routing, even aluminum.
The guy that developed all that recommends NEMA17 53Ncm or 59Ncm, Dewalt 660 (600W) router and RAMBo board but I really would like to use DuetWifi because it is more powerful, can be extended in the future and has wifi.
I really don't care about speed, the machine could work all day and night for all I care.
It will be used a few times a month.
Later on I could improve performance, buy a spindle, new motors, build another frame, whatever.
This is my first CNC experience and I just wish I could make a working machine for as little money as possible so I can play around.
The only thing that worries me now is electronics and software.