PROBLEM SOLVED....
To all that have tried to help me, I want to say thank you to all of you. Turns out that I made a silly mistake in my config.g. dc42 posted , you should put the M92 command before and the firmware will take care of the M350 when it sees it based on your M92 settings. If this can help someone else from making this mistake or helps some one figure out whats wrong, then the past month of frustration will be worth it. Thanks again for the support...and the patience for a noob.
I made a choice between one of two boards for my printer. I most definitely choose the right one.
thanks,
RJ