My suggestion would be the same as all the others.
Make sure the aluminium plate has been cast, not rolled. Cast plates have less internal stresses and will warp less when heated, you should also make sure that plate has been face milled so it is level and flat.
This type of plates is a commodity if you can tolerate to use a default size, they are of the shelf parts you can can get on eBay.
You can drill the mouting holes with a drillpress or even a cordless if need be, just start with a small size drill and low rpm.
Since we are talking 400x400 and up, your only practical option is mains powered silicone heater in the 1kW range. Keenovo is a commonly used brand, they publish the specs for the integrated thermistors, there are even a few config samples here in the forum you can copy paste.
You can get those of Ali but there are also a bunch of retailers in europe. ... please do not forget, to run a ground wire to the bed as the silicone heaters only have a 2 wire connection
Insulation, my prefered choice is mealamin foam, often sold under brand the name Basotect. It can be used up to 240C and is flame retartend. It is commonly used as sound and heat insulation in cars, offices, public buildings. You can get 20mm sheets on Amazon or eBay. Use some 3M-468MP, high temperature resistant double sided sticky tape, and put the foam under your bed.
Print surface, get a magnetic sheet with a spring steel sheet, you can get those as kits on eBay and Amazon. It is just so much more convinient ... seperating a large PETG print from a ridgit plate without damaging the build surface or the print can quickly become a challenge.
Build surface it selfe, personal choice, my favourite is FR-2.