Here are some notes I made when I was looking at this:
EXP2 is the same on the Mini and the ST7920 display but reversed between them.
EXP1 is also reversed but has the following additional changes
The 3 Mini has LCD_A0 where the RRD display expects CS. This is handled in firmware - the firmware uses A0 as CS when a type 1 display is configured in M918.
The Mini has LCD_RST (which the Mini just ties high through a pullup resistor) where the type 1 display expects SCLK
The Mini has the CS pin where the type 1 display expects MOSI
ENCA and ENCB are also swapped, but that doesn't matter, you can change the direction in the M918 command
So I think the easiest way to drive the display would be:
Reverse the connectors at one end of each cable
Cut the conductors in the EXP1 ribbon cable that carry LCD_RST and SPI2_CS2 from the Mini to wrong pins on the display
On the display add links to carry MOSI and SCK from the EXP2 connector to the correct pins on the EXP1 connector
I have not tested this.