It sounds like there is some resistance to the filament feed because it seems that every time you increase the extruder motor current it improves things. That may just be the arrangement of the Bowden tube or a combination of various things. You said in one of your previous posts that the motor was good for 1.7 Amps. Is that the rated current? A good rule of thumb is to set the motor current to 85% of the rated current so 1.44Amps would be about right. As you have discovered, keeping the filament path as straight as possible will also help (as will keeping the Bowden tube as short as possible but without any sharp bends). Some people swear by Capricorn PTFE tubing. I haven't tried it myself but it's supposed to be low friction so it might help.
My 5 colour Diamond hot end uses a modified version of E3D heat sinks and suffered from heat creep causing the filament to swell in the area of the heat break and "bind" inside the PTFE liner. The cure for that was to increase the air flow over the heat sinks so that's something that might be worth trying on your V6 ( a bigger fan).
My 5 reels of filament all sit on horizontal rods similar to yours - albeit quit large diameter printed cylinders that fit over 2020 aluminium extrusion but they still rely on the extruder "dragging" it off the spool but it's not a problem.
Another thing to watch out for is to use just enough but not too much retraction. It is possible to draw molten filament up beyond the heat break where it will solidify and cause a blockage.
HTH
PS. Having just re-read your OP, it sounds very much like the heat creep issue that the standard 5 colour Diamond hot end suffers from. So, I'd try a bigger fan on the heat sink. Oh, and is it a genuine E3D V6 or a clone? If it's a clone, that may well be the cause of all your problems.