@jrdm, the current depends on the input voltage to the control terminals. The 5 to 12mA current rating is probably measured at some standard voltage such as 10V. The minimum input voltage is usually 3V, so the 3.3V provided by the Duet is only a little above this, and the input current will be low. If you are concerned, connect the SSR input to the output of the Duet as I suggested, and measure the voltage across the control terminals when you command it on. Check that you have at least 3V as required by the SSR datasheet.